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Nashua, NH 03064-2238
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Stephen Etlinger

Stephen Etlinger

Thursday, September 15th, 1955 Friday, December 21st, 2018

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Obituary for Stephen Robert Etlinger

Stephen Robert Etlinger, 63, of Merrimack died Friday December 21, 2018 at St. Joseph's Hospital after a brief illness, with his loved ones at his side.
Born September 15, 1955 in Yonkers, NY he was the son of the late Louis and Mildred (Kemp) Etlinger and husband of Elizabeth (Roche) Etlinger, of Merrimack, NH.
Stephen was a graduate of Nashua High School and attended classes at Southern NH University. He was employed as a general manager for several large audio/video chains, and later worked as the Vice President of Sales & Marketing for Resource Recruiting.
He enjoyed cycling, hiking with his dog, and had a love for animals and a passion for music. Most of all, he was a dedicated family man to his wife and daughters and immensely enjoyed helping to care for his doting grandchildren.
Besides his loving wife, survivors include three daughters, Jennifer Buck, of Portsmouth, NH, Rebecca Adams and her husband Jonathan, of West Newbury, MA and Abbey Harris and her husband Nathan, of Manchester; five grandchildren, Judd Adams, Eli Harris, Madelynne Buck, Anna Harris and Lylah Buck; two brothers, Alan Etlinger and his wife Marie, of Brookline, NH and Ronald Etlinger and his wife Kathy, of Mount Vernon, NH as well as several nieces, nephews and cousins.
SERVICES: A funeral service will be held Wednesday December 26, 2018 at 11:00 am in the chapel of The Davis Funeral Home, 1 Lock St., Nashua, NH 03064. Family and friends are respectfully invited to attend. Burial will follow at Beth Abraham Cemetery, Mercier Lane Nashua, NH 03062. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Stephen's loving memory to the Brittany Roche Foundation, 11 Bryers Lane, Antrim, NH 03440 or by going to: (603) 883-3401. “ONE MEMORY LIGHTS ANOTHER”.

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  • Service

    Wednesday, December 26th, 2018 | 11:00am
    The Davis Funeral Home
    1 Lock St.
    Nashua, NH
    Wednesday, December 26th, 2018
    Rabbi Jeremy Szczepanski
  • Interment

    Wednesday, December 26th, 2018 | 12:00pm
    Beth Abraham Cemetery
    Mercier Lane
    Nashua, NH
    Wednesday, December 26th, 2018

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Jeff Haymes

My deepest sympathies and condolences to your family. Stephen and I shared a special friendship. He was my District Manager for Tech HiFi and later grew into a great friendship that spanned many decades. Although we did not keep up on a regular basis I used to give him a call just to touch base when I was in town. Stephen and I had a mutual respect for one another and we both appreciated our jib jab exchanges of dry witty humor and sarcasm and talking about the old days with Tech HiFi. I will miss him, but his memory will always be with me. Rest in peace old friend. You may be gone, but never forgotten.
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Elaine Lambert

I wanted to express my heartfelt condolences to all of Stephen’s family. Death is the hardest thing we have to deal with in life. I know my words can’t change anything and can do little to ease the pain you are feeling, so I pray that the God of comfort be with you to help you cope. (2 Thessalonians 2:16,17) Lean on Him in the days to follow. For the Bible’s answers to questions about grief and death please visit
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Paul Goupil

Stephen, though you have left us you will never be forgotten. God Bless and thanks for everything. Paul Goupil Capt. Retired.
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Lois Rostanzo

I’m so sorry for your loss, Beth. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your memories give you comfort as you grieve. So very sorry.
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Noni Wemple

My prayers go out to you my friend to keep you strong as you go forward in this loss of your sweet husband. No words can ease the pain Just know I am thinking of you and your family and holding you up.
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